There are many issues that can interfere with achievement. The adolescent years are a period of adjustment. Negative emotions, from time to time, are normal. Continued feelings of anger, depression, anxiety, fear can result in withdrawal, sarcasm, blame, avoidance, excuse-making, dishonesty, and disobedience...to name a few. Such feelings can lead to low self-esteem, interpersonal relations, and poor performance in school or work. Let's look at a few of these issues. 

                                               Fear and Worry

Fear and/or worry can de-motivate and debilitate and certainly adversely affect academic performance. Psychologists point out that often the underlying emotion resulting in negative responses is "fear". So, identifying what you are afraid of can be the first step to helping resolve emotional issues. Doing so may not always be easy. Assistance provided in publications, support groups, and by therapists may be necessary

                                     Stress, Anxiety and Depression

According to Research.com 2022 "Seven out of ten teens in the U.S. (between the ages of 13 and 17 years old) have named anxiety or depression as a major problem among their peers. 75% of high school students expressed boredom, anger, sadness, fear, or stress while in school." There can be many causes that contribute to such negative feelings. Included are life and adolescence adjustments, academic demands, peer relations, family life, and finances. If negative feelings become excessive, it can result in abnormal sleep patterns, unusual weight gain or loss, guilt, hopelessness, and/or relationship problems. If negative feelings linger, serious emotional issues can result sometimes leading up to suicide. So, if emotional issues persist, professional consultation should not be delayed. Attempts to deal with negative emotions by self-medicating with alcohol, drugs, or non-physician prescribes medication must be a avoided at all costs! Doing so will not only make matters worse, but it can also lead to permanent disability and even death.

             Other Obstacles to Achievement

In addition to the emotions listed above, other obstacles that can adversely effect success (and happiness) in school and life include: lethargy, relationship issues, over-extension, poor time management, procrastination and addictions (tobacco, drugs and alcohol, gaming disorder, social media).

Overcoming 0bstacles

There is no one solution to every obstacle. However, there are several sound principles that can go a long way to addressing obstacles. 

 Maintain a Life Balance

Think about it. The world about us is based on balance. Nature survives because natural systems maintain a state of equilibrium. Likewise, our bodies health is reliant on all the different components working in harmony. When one element is disturbed, the entire system is disturbed.

Thus, it makes sense to maintain balance in our lives. Proper balance can help provide meaning and fulfillment, which in turn contributes to our feelings of self-worth and happiness. How does one create and maintain "life balance"?

Give appropriate time to the most important areas of your life. What should these "areas" be? Health, school/career, family, hobbies/personal interests, spiritual, chores, finances. Too much time spent on only one or a few of these will result in being out of balance and with negative emotional and physical consequences. The clip at the bottom of this page, titled "Ten Truths: How to be Happy and Successful in Life"  will help you to identify and PRIORITIZE that which is (or should be) most important. It is recognized that everyone will not give priority to the areas in the same order. Although in the clip I provide recommendations, you may determine your own priorities. That is fine...as long as you recognize that which is most important and give appropriate time to each.

Eight more truths for dealing with challenges.

1. Create a PLAN for carrying out your desires, then just DO IT!

2. Every minute of your life is a gift. Do not wait for someone else or some event to make you happy. Look at what you have, not at what you do not have.

3. Embrace spirituality! Doing so helps to define your way of loving, accepting, and relating to the world around us. There are countless stories of persons challenged with misfortune, sadness, anxiety, loss, mistreatment, discrimination, hatred, etc., yet were able to deal with such challenges when they were willing to believe in a higher power.

4. Laughter is one of the Lords greatest gifts. It allows us to step back from adversity and challenges, deal with them and move on

5. If you hang on to negative feelings, guess what! You get to keep them!

6. Forgiveness heals! When you choose to let go of wounds caused by yourself or others, you can no longer be hurt by it. Forgiveness allows you to grow and thrive. It is a gift you give yourself.

7. Without friends and family, you have nothing. Treasure the laughter, the tears, the memories.

8. Service to others and your community will yield great self-satisfaction and joy.

For more detailed guidance on dealing with issues that interfere with success and happiness go to Amazon.com and enter "Winning at School and Life". You will see the cover (below) to the e-book.It provides powerful solutions to school, and life challenges. The "Read Sample" provides a book summary and Table of Contents.

This e-book is an excerpt of the book "Student Success with Less Stress" that sells for $23.99 paperbck version and $3.99 e-book version. But the Amazon Kindle e-book is only $1.99.